God's word says to uphold the laws of the
gov. underwhich we live. So Chuch & Civil is fine. But, in the pioneer
days, the people didn't have a government...so they married "in their
hearts". Some states are common-law in our times. The main issue is one
man & one woman homes.

I am sorry but I feel 'any ceremony' just will
not do. This is a committment people make to each other that is supposed
to last a life time. In my eyes, it should be made before God and family
and friends. Why people who truely love each other and feel they are
bound to each other in a loving relationship would not want to do this, is
beyond me.